Here are my seven tips on becoming a respectable person in the society. So whats the big deal: If you are lacking it or you want to be more respectful and honorable, these tips will help you. Let me talk about respect first: Respect is of two types; normative and earned. Normative is the respect you get without your much effort like, due to family back ground, status, job title etc. Earned respect is that you get because of your behavior. In these tips we talk about gaining this second kind of respect.
If you apply these techniques in your daily life, you start earning respect in your society. Let me share my 7 tips of gaining respect.
1.Always respect other people:
The # 1 rule to be respectable person in any society is to respect the members of the society. Whatever their age group, sex, and beliefs are, you just give respect to each of them. Simply treat others the way you like to be treated. Say "Thak you" to everyone who does something for you. It is a give and take strategy: give respect take respect, simple.
2.Always respect yourself:
If you respect yourself peolple respect you. Belief in yourself and your abilities, if you have shortcomings then remember one thing nothing in this world is perfect. Treat yourself with respect, don't ever let yourself down.
3.Be self-assured:
When you are aggressively self assured of your rights and values you automatically rise up in other's estimations. Being assertive does not mean that you should be rude. People are more willing to help and bend for someone who is both direct and respectful.
4.Always well dressed:
Yes you read what I write, dress up like a sober person. It is not that mean that you wear costly dressess, its mean you wear clean and simple not odd dressess. If you're wearing clothes that look like you've just got out of bed, people won't take you seriously.
5.Always keep control on your negative feeling:
Most of the time you meet people who are annoyed and make you annoyed. It is very difficult to respect such people, so keep conltrol on your anger. It is the most hard thing to do but you can do it by doing these things when you get impatience:
take a long breath
remeber this words " Just calm, Just calm" or any other words of same meanings and repeat these words in your mind
If possible avoid such kind of people
6.Always meet your commitments:
When you keep your words and do what you say, people start loving you. There is no substitute for it It is very hard to keep your respect level up without this. If you start following this princple, it will bring you very respectable in the eyes of other people.
7.Always keep on improving:
Always look for the weak points in your personality, to do this you can take help of your close friend or your family member. Improve these lacks of personality. When you get the respect and popular in your societ don't be proudy and contented on that. Look for excllence and watch other respectable persons lives, learn from them.
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